Why does he continue his affair?

I fought with my husband for a year before he admitted cheating with his cousin while he was in his home country for a few months. He gave me the story it had nothing to do with love it was just sticking his **** in a hole and other crude stuff. He said I wasn't supposed to find out and he didn't want a divorce. He doesn't care I hurt. Well a few months ago we were fighting and he told me he can't live without me and he wants to grow old with me, blah blah. But yesterday I saw a facebook conversation from him to that cousin's sister. he was writing how he couldn't sleep or work. He missed his cousin and he wants her. But he doesn't want to be second option to her stupid boyfriend. And he was trying to get his cousins sister to call her but the girl didn't want to answer the phone and talk to him because she said he left her to go back to his family (me and the kids) and she doesn't want to start an affair again. But I thought me and my husband were ok and trying to work things out. But the message also said he had been talking to her for the past few weeks and thought everything was ok and then she seemed distant and then stopped talking to him altogether. So I assume he has been sneaking off somewhere or at work to talk to her again. When I asked him who he was chatting with he was laughing and saying my cousin. I asked him if they were talking about the girl he had the affair again and he said no just his problems and none of my business. So I snooped and then when he got home that night he changed his password......but it was too late I already saw everything. I don't understand why he can spout things like "I can't live without you" to me and then be so obviously in love with his cousin. I never believed they just had sex a few times because it "just happened" because he came back from his country a different man ...all depressed and stuff. I am planning to divorce him that's not the question. How can he have sex with me here all these months but have been pining for her. What the heck is that? I wonder if he has psychiatric problems because this seems to extreme to just be a cheater and a88hole. Does anyone know any legal options I have for keeping him away from our kids? I am concerned because his affair was INCEST! Also his message says he was trying to get her to meet him in Mexico in July and then sneak her across the border. How can I report this or get them in trouble for this? It really scares me how he can be so normal with me at home and have all this stuff going on in secret..............

My display drivers crashed, what do I do?

Ok....so where or how did you get drivers to start with? Check the connection to ensure that it hasn't come lose or anything. If you're using an HDMI connection, do you have a regular video cable you can use between the computer and monitor as a fallback? Check the monitor setting also to make sure it's on HDMI and not RGA or any other setting. PF

Why won't he do this trail.?..?

I have an OTTB, now 11 he raced until he was 6. He did dressage (abused) for until he was 8, trained to jump as a 9yr old, and turned out to pasture neglected until i got him at 10.5. When we bought him we asked if they'd ever taken him on trails they said there were trails where they'd had him but said it funny so I wasn't so convinced he was good but I wasn't looking for a trail horse I wanted a hunter. Now that summers here I wouldn't mind the occasional trail ride but he dosen't seem to like the idea. We tried leading him in hand once and he was rearing and trying to walk all over me but he was still new to me, we tried 2 months ago and he was better but a little pushy (and at 17 hands that's not the safest). My instructor thought he'd be better with other horses so we went out with a few other horses yesterday instead of a lesson he did ok out of the arena in front of the barn we put him up front and he relaxed alot more, walking down the lane he normally got pushy he was nervous but ok when we hit a place to turn on the lane he spun and tried bolting 3 times so we turned around and started going back and he bucked and reared we got him moving and he relaxed once he was closer to home. I noticed when we stopped he got very anxious and nervous and relaxed more when he was walking. So sounds like insecurity out of the arena and not being close to home right? Well we took him to a show and he fell in the trailer luckily we were close to home (mine not his) so he got up and we ended up puting him in my backyard while we got things in hand new place my dogs howling and barking at the door he dosen't flinch, we go to the show and he behaves almost like he's been showing his whole life in a totally new place and commotion. We tried a trail close to the barn that winds right behind and he did ok on that, so any idea on why he won't go back to the main trails? We've never gotten close enough to see the opening to the trail it always gets dangerous (considering his size) before we get close, why? any ideas? maybe he's just not a trail horse, that's fine but why is he fine in some places and not others? (we did make him face the way we were going before turning and going home so he knew that he couldn't do that and get away and we rode more after that in and outside)

Are speculators' destroying Global economic recovery?

On a range of commodities; we just see prices going up and up and up. Just today the Gov't along with other non-opec nations tap into oil reserves which really did not have much of an affect on lowering light crude ( now trading at $95). If Conservatives really want to help America then please stop focusing only on Taxes and help put a stop to speculators! moreover; why not go after them and make a difference instead of a one-sided approach to fixing the economy or 0bama being a Muslim?

You like the song Narwhals?

NARWHALS NARWHALS SWIMMIN' IN THE OCEAN CAUSIN' A COMMOTION CUZ THEY ARE SO AWESOME, NARWHALS NARWHALS SWIMMIN' IN THE OCEAN, PRETTY BIG AND PRETTY WHITE, THEY BEAT A POLAR BEAR IN A FIGHT, LIKE AN UNDERWATER UNICORN THEY GOT A KICK *** FACIAL HORN, THEY ARE THE JEDI OF THE SEA, THEY KEEP CTHULU EATING YE!

What should i do about it?

hi , im 13 going on 14. meaning im in 3rd year in high school . my friend was friends with another guy in first year and then they sort of fell out. now they've been friends again for a couple of months. thing is their friendship has always been stronger than mine with my friend as i dont have much in common with her and she has the same sense of humour as this guy. the guys got another friend and all the jokes the three of them make are really crude and the jokes always about me or my mum or something nasty. i dont have any other close friends and they said they will ditch me on monday as they did the other day at lunch and i sat myself the whole 45 mins. she defo doesnt fancy this guy as hes g*y so . Thanks for reading

What do you think the motives of this guy were?

He misses his ex and he made out with you because he was lonely. That's what it seems like to me. He's just hurt and doesn't want a relationship except with the girl he used to love.