God and Gays? Struggling Teenage girl!?

God does not "hate fags" because God loves everyone. God loves us all, but He expects us to make the right choices and enact self control. To God, we should lead with our will and intellect, and our emotions will follow. To God, love is a commitment that produces feeling- love itself is not a feeling. Now, for someone to be with someone of the same sex is a sin in God's eyes, because to God this is a choice. So you can choose to be with only the opposite sex and ask God to take away these feelings that could lead you into the temptation of being with someone of the same sex. I would pray and talk to God to get direct on this, and I hope you make good, Christian choices about how to continue on.