Im 13 and on probation and in 2 weeks i got to court i have been suspended alot and grades are bad what do i d?

Out in Nevada we have Boot Camp that lasts 180 days for kids who have problems. That is designed to whip them into shape physically and mentally and so they will see what life will be like if they do not clean up their act. You might ASK to be sent to such a camp where you are at. If you do not get some intense help like that the next time you get in trouble you may find you get tried as an adult and that would not be good for you at all.